A complaint I frequently hear from men is that their wife is gone all the time … that she is too “busy” spending time with other people to be able to spend any time with them.
They are angry because their wife is constantly “gone”, hanging out with her girlfriends.
To make the problem even worse, they often classify these girlfriends as “bad news” and “men-bashers”.
Here’s what I tell them…
“The bad-news girlfriends are doing a better job of meeting your wife’s needs than you are … they are more interesting and attractive than you are … which is why she chooses to hang out with them instead of you.”
It’s not very pleasant. It doesn’t make them feel good. But, it points to the answers these men need to turn their situation around … so that their wife wants to hang out with them and have sex with them … instead of hanging out with the bad-news girlfriends…
The answers are…
1. “Do a better job at meeting your wife’s needs than anyone else she knows.”
2. “Be more interesting, engaging, and attractive than anyone else she knows.”
The man who embraces this philosophy will soon find that his wife spends far, far more time with him than she does anyone else.
Here is a way to find out more about your wife’s needs: ask her this question: “Wife, look deep inside of yourself and imagine for a moment that I met and satisfied your every need and desire better than anyone else you know. What would I be doing?”
If she will answer your question, treat whatever she says with the UTMOST RESPECT because she is baring her soul to you. How you treat her response will either make or break your marriage.
Copyright 2007 by Calle Zorro