How To Get Your Wife To Give You What You Want…
Men, I’m pretty certain there’s some things you wish your wife would give you more of…
Today I aim to help you improve your marriage relationship…
Within this article, I intend to expand your awareness…
And, if you’ll permit me to, I’m going to personalize this for you a bit…
You don’t like it when your wife neglects you. You don’t like it when your wife ignores you. You don’t like it when your wife is too busy working one something else and has no time for you.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife pays no attention to you. You don’t like it when your wife refuses to express and show her love for you. You don’t like it when your wife is unsupportive or uncaring. And, you certainly don’t like it when your wife withholds affection and intimacy.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife nitpicks at things. You don’t like it when your wife nags on you about something that irritates her. You don’t like it when your wife belittles you. And, you certainly don’t like it when your wife criticizes everything you say or do.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife puts the blame for some problem on you. You don’t like it when your wife makes accusations against you – even if they’re true. And, you definitely don’t like it when your wife is verbally or emotionally abusive.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when you feel insecure in your marriage relationship. You don’t like it when you’re unsure if your wife is loyal and faithful to you. You certainly don’t like it when you feel like you’re second – maybe even third or fourth – string and some other man is the first string.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife gets frustrated over something and takes it out on you. You don’t like it when your wife gets mad about something and you get to feel the heat of that anger – even if it has nothing to do with you – or it has everything to do with you.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when you find out that your wife has told other people about your weaknesses, faults, shortcomings, or mistakes. You don’t like it when your wife reveals personal, private information out of turn – especially when it portrays you as inept or inadequate.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife is open and friendly with other people but cold to you. And especially, you don’t like it when your wife won’t talk about issues with you but she’ll go talk about them with other people.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife acts like she always has to get her way – or else! You don’t like it when your wife acts like nothing you do is ever good enough. You don’t like it when your wife undermines you. You don’t like it when your wife tries to change you. You don’t like it when your wife is possessive or jealous.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife is selfish. You don’t like it when your wife feels like she should get all the money, all the attention, all the good first – and if there’s anything left over, well, then you can have some too. In fact, you don’t feel any attraction at all towards your wife when she operates in an arrogant, ego-centric, self-centered way.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife fails to take care of herself. You don’t like it when your wife fails to take care of her work. You don’t like it when your wife fails to carry her share of the load. You don’t like it when your wife simply doesn’t care about things – especially the things that have to do with having a smooth-running home and marriage.
Neither does your wife!
Now, think about all the things you’d like for your wife to give you.
How do you get your wife to give you those things?
Well, as you now can clearly see, in many ways, the very things that you want are also the very same things that your wife wants.
And, by graciously giving your wife more of what she wants, you pave the way for YOU to get back more of what you want too. You open the door for your wife to give you what you want.
Copyright 2008, Article by Calle Zorro. Permission is granted to reprint this article ONLY if a resource box pointing to http://www.marriedandhappy.com/ is included with it.
Today I aim to help you improve your marriage relationship…
Within this article, I intend to expand your awareness…
And, if you’ll permit me to, I’m going to personalize this for you a bit…
You don’t like it when your wife neglects you. You don’t like it when your wife ignores you. You don’t like it when your wife is too busy working one something else and has no time for you.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife pays no attention to you. You don’t like it when your wife refuses to express and show her love for you. You don’t like it when your wife is unsupportive or uncaring. And, you certainly don’t like it when your wife withholds affection and intimacy.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife nitpicks at things. You don’t like it when your wife nags on you about something that irritates her. You don’t like it when your wife belittles you. And, you certainly don’t like it when your wife criticizes everything you say or do.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife puts the blame for some problem on you. You don’t like it when your wife makes accusations against you – even if they’re true. And, you definitely don’t like it when your wife is verbally or emotionally abusive.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when you feel insecure in your marriage relationship. You don’t like it when you’re unsure if your wife is loyal and faithful to you. You certainly don’t like it when you feel like you’re second – maybe even third or fourth – string and some other man is the first string.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife gets frustrated over something and takes it out on you. You don’t like it when your wife gets mad about something and you get to feel the heat of that anger – even if it has nothing to do with you – or it has everything to do with you.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when you find out that your wife has told other people about your weaknesses, faults, shortcomings, or mistakes. You don’t like it when your wife reveals personal, private information out of turn – especially when it portrays you as inept or inadequate.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife is open and friendly with other people but cold to you. And especially, you don’t like it when your wife won’t talk about issues with you but she’ll go talk about them with other people.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife acts like she always has to get her way – or else! You don’t like it when your wife acts like nothing you do is ever good enough. You don’t like it when your wife undermines you. You don’t like it when your wife tries to change you. You don’t like it when your wife is possessive or jealous.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife is selfish. You don’t like it when your wife feels like she should get all the money, all the attention, all the good first – and if there’s anything left over, well, then you can have some too. In fact, you don’t feel any attraction at all towards your wife when she operates in an arrogant, ego-centric, self-centered way.
Neither does your wife!
You don’t like it when your wife fails to take care of herself. You don’t like it when your wife fails to take care of her work. You don’t like it when your wife fails to carry her share of the load. You don’t like it when your wife simply doesn’t care about things – especially the things that have to do with having a smooth-running home and marriage.
Neither does your wife!
Now, think about all the things you’d like for your wife to give you.
How do you get your wife to give you those things?
Well, as you now can clearly see, in many ways, the very things that you want are also the very same things that your wife wants.
And, by graciously giving your wife more of what she wants, you pave the way for YOU to get back more of what you want too. You open the door for your wife to give you what you want.
Copyright 2008, Article by Calle Zorro. Permission is granted to reprint this article ONLY if a resource box pointing to http://www.marriedandhappy.com/ is included with it.
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posted by Calle Zorro at
9:07 AM
7 Comments:
Wow. That has to be the worst article I've ever seen on the topic. Hello Mrs. (Or Ms.?) Obvious. How about the bulk of the male community who do most things there wife would like, don't do most things they don't like, and still get no affection (let alone sex) in return?
Total crap...wow!! Just another "man bad...woman good" This will never solve may couples REAL problems or help anyone. You could've saved yourself a lot of time and just typed, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Thanks for pointing out the competely "Obvious"...
And thumbs up to the first comment!!
I agree; whoever wrote the article must to been a pretty sick woman. Smart men know that if you give your wife everything she wants; she will not appreciate you, unless she is smart enough to know and really love you. and as we all know; this kind of woman are pretty hard to find this days. This days many woman thing they are the hottest thing on earth and manipulate the man; hence, man sleeping with other woman.
A word of advice for this losers out there that think the manipulation of a good man is a good thing.
Soon or later he will know how sick of a person you are; and he realized what kind of sicko you are; he will do what he has to do. He will not need any advice and that is when the misses will lose all the controlling and who know what else she will get in return. But I am sure she have it coming.
For the man out there. If you need to improve you life with a woman; read about relationships. Don't listen to much what other people said. Go to the library or the book store. Find out if you have issues and of course if your wife have issues and work on them together. If your wife feel you are the only one with issues; that could be a red flag that she is using you or have problems. If you want a counselor; find a male counselor not a woman. Many female psychologies and female social workers are feminist. Be careful. Your happiness is in your hands not your wife hand or anyone else.
My wife has evrything i can give her, love, affection, a shared responsibility with the kids, I shop, I wash, I iron, I cook etc etc. She still undermines most things I do and nehas never really given me a great deal of support. If I go to do anything she almost invariably comes up with negative attitude. I married her after she left her 1st husband who she claimed never did anything. I sometimes wonder if he gave up trying because she was lioke that with him too. I have considered leaving her even though I do love her. But we have a 5 year old daughter who is the light of my life and I couldn't bear to hurt her. i just think that my wife likes to control, but there are times i wish she would just die. Terrible, but if things go on like this it will kill me.
In response to these comments...
1. I am a man.
2. I do not deny that some percentage of women are bitchy, selfish, narcissistic, etc.
That does not mean they are non-sexual.
Most importantly, it DOES NOT mean there is nothing a man can do to create a happier, more sexual marriage.
This is where some men blow it...they'd rather gripe and complain about their wife...they'd rather go down the path of life in an unhappy relationship...trying to snag an occasional (problematic) affair on the side...than LEARN how to become the kind of man who HAS a happy, sexual marriage.
And, that's fine if that's what a man wants to do. But, while they are "enjoying" their complaining, there are thousands of men who are getting my training materials and they are CREATING the kind of wife they can be happy and sexual with...and they are REALLY enjoying life.
3. I suggest guys like these commenters read the following posts:
http://www.marriedandhappy.com/Blog/2009/12/more-loving-and-sexual-wife.html
http://www.marriedandhappy.com/Blog/2009/11/my-wife-does-not-give-me-love-respect.html
http://www.marriedandhappy.com/Blog/2009/11/i-want-my-wife-to-want-me-as-much-as-i.html
What a crock of shit, then you come to my home, you psy the bills and sit while your wife does not work, drains you, the kids run up a 430.00 electric bill, refuse to go to school, throw book bags through windows and tell me the wife feels the same way. bullshit. I made a mistake I thought I had the one who would share life with , equally contribute, even if she did decide not work then make a home worth coming home to , if the shoe was on the other foor and I did not have to work, thing would be better and I have proved that, so don't put up bullshit articals like this, when in a lot of cases men just become meal tickets.
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