For Women Only...


Dear Lady,

If you are married, have been married, or are soon to be married, your input is needed and valued...

In order for a woman to have the happy, satisfying, fulfilling, and intimate relationship she deserves, she MUST have a man who knows how to meet her emotional, mental, and physical needs.

As a woman, you've had experiences where a man succeeded or failed in meeting your various needs...and I'm asking you to share a few key points from those experiences in this research effort.

As you can probably attest, there are plenty of women who are unhappy because their man doesn't know how to meet her needs.  The good news is that right here, right now, you have a chance to help make things better for a good many women.

PLEASE DO!

Why?

It's because WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!  By helping me in this research, by filling in the survey questions below, I can better help men all over the world become better relationship partners. 

And, by YOU being a blessing to all of these relationships in this way, a blessing MUST come back to you in your own relationship.  That's the way it works.

Now, just so you know...  You CAN be completely open and honest in answering this research survey because this is totally secure, private, and anonymous.  Nobody will ever know who you are -- not even me. 

As you'll see, I don't even ask for your name or email address because knowing who you are is NOT important in this research context.  What's important is knowing what kinds of wants, needs, desires, and thoughts you have as a woman.

So, DON'T HOLD ANYTHING BACK.  Just write the truth and tell it straight.

Tell Me What You Wish YOUR Man Would Do To And For YOU That Would Make You A Happy Woman Who's Attracted To Her Man.

On my end, I am striving to help men become the kind of men that women want to spend their life with.  The more you let me into the inner recesses of your mind, the more I'll be able to help them.

I'm about to ask you 13 questions.  Some will be easy for you to answer because they are impersonal while others will be harder to answer because they are more personal.  A couple of them are such that you may feel a bit embarrassed about revealing that part of you...it may even be hard for you to admit that part of you exists.

In spite of this, please let yourself open up long enough answer every question. 

Remember, this is TOTALLY anonymous.  And, I assure you, the sole motive behind every question is me being able to better help men become the kind of man that a woman wants to spend the rest of her life with.

Also, I've intentionally made some of the questions similar because sometimes saying something in a slightly different way from a slightly different angle is all I need to fully "get" what you're saying.

Lastly, after you've answered these questions, remember to click the "Submit" button at the bottom of the page. 

Now, please BLESS a whole lot of women by fully answering each of the following questions so that I can help a whole lot of men become better partners...

What key lessons or concepts would you like for your
man to get in the areas of marriage, love, and romance?:

If your man was really meeting your needs supremely
well, if he was doing things that emotionally satisfied you
and attracted you to him, what would he be doing?:

What are a few things that you personally would find very
romantic and how might men be more romantic?:

What advice would you give to the man who
wishes his lady wanted sex more often?  What are
some specific things that men can do to create a
happier, more sexual relationship with their lady?:

When it comes to sex and intimacy, what does your man
do that you like and what do you wish he would do differently?:

Knowing that many women are uncomfortable being direct and
open about their innermost sexuality, how do you suggest a
husband find out what really excites and turns on his wife?:

Based on the fact that their wife seemingly never wants to
have sex with them, some men believe that most women don't
want sex, have no interest in sex, and never think about
anything of a sexual nature.  What about you?  How often
do you think about something of a sexual nature?:

Describe what men do that turns you off
emotionally and sexually towards them:

Reflecting back on times that you've found yourself very
sexually attracted to a man, what was it about him -- what
did he do, what did he say, how did he act, how did he
carry himself, what was his relationship to others, etc. --
that caused you to be attracted to him? What was it that
he did that really turned you on sexually? (Alternatively,
you can use your imagination to describe a man that you
would be very sexually attracted to and turned on by):

Regardless of whether you'd really do them or not, what kinds of
sexual thoughts and fantasies do you find appealing and exciting?
What sexual thoughts do you hardly let yourself think about but
yet they still cross your mind from time to time and are exciting?
(Alternatively, if you were forced to write an erotic story, what
kinds of sexual experiences and encounters would take place?):

During sex, what do you tend to find yourself thinking and feeling?:

In terms of creating a happy relationship that works for both a
man and a woman, what else should I have asked that I didn't
ask and what would your answer have been had I asked it?:

What else would you like to say relative to helping us
men become the kind of man that a woman can
respect, appreciate, and be attracted to?:

Thanks for your input and for being so open and honest.

Sincerely,
Women, here's a survey where you can give us men input on how to be a better man, a better husband, and a better lover.
Calle Zorro