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How To Seduce Your Wife: A Husband’s Guide (Segment 8 – How To Open Up A Wife Who Resists Being Affectionate Or Sexual)
There are a few women who stubbornly, rebelliously refuse to respond positively to their husband's marriage improvement efforts. In fact, no matter how correctly and attractively their husband operates, these wives continue to be a closed down, shut down, cold, and distant wife to their husband. It is for the husband who has this kind of wife that "How To Open Up A Wife Who Resists Being Affectionate Or Sexual" was written.
So, how does a husband open and blossom his wife’s affection and sexuality when he has already used all of the normal, commonly-known ideas and techniques?
How does a husband move his wife from reserved, cold, indifferent, non-affectionate, not-very-expressive, and not-very-adventurous-sexually to warm, affectionate, expressive, and sexually-adventurous?
In other words, how does a husband help his wife become a warm, close, friendly, affectionate, and sexual wife when she has pretty much always been cold, distant, unfriendly, non-affectionate, and non-sexual?
Or, how does a husband get his wife to open back up to him in love, affection, and intimacy after she has closed herself off to him and shut down her feelings for him … and she will not let herself forgive or forget the bad that he has done in the past … and she will not accept or work with his present efforts to be a good husband … and she will not allow herself to have feelings for him so that they can finally move forward into a pleasant marriage?
If these are questions you have asked yourself … if your wife really is a “hard case to crack open”, then this eBook is for you.
Or, if you are just a husband who wants to enjoy the highest-quality relationship with his wife that he possibly can based on the deepest connection and respect possible, then this eBook is also for you.
Note: When you get the above eBook, you also get access to the private “WifeSeducer8” forum where Calle Zorro and other men discuss the content and application of this digital book.
Note: A husband needs to have at least implemented the teachings contained within the "Happy Sexual Marriage Bundle - Starter" product BEFORE he attempts to use the teachings within this eBook.
Now, if you want more information about this product, here is the long description…
As we are progressing down the path of becoming a better and better wife-seducer ... the kind of man who knows how to operate in such a way that his wife WANTS to be his loving, affectionate wife and she WANTS to be his passionate, sexual lover ... we pause in this eBook to deal with a special kind of problem that some husbands have. Specifically:
- How does a husband open up a wife ... who is mostly always in a bad mood or upset about something ... to warmth and lovingness?
- How does a husband get past his wife's resistance to affection and intimacy when he has already done all of the things that the "normal" wife would respond positively to with affection and sex? In other words, when a husband has done everything that a "normal" wife would absolutely respond positively to ... all the things I cover in my other eBooks ... and his wife is still cold, distant, unfriendly, shut-down, or non-sexual, what does he do then?
- And especially, how does a husband create a happier, more affectionate, more sexual marriage relationship WITHOUT conflict and without "drawing lines" that could potentially end his marriage relationship?
Let me say it this way:
- How does a husband open and blossom his wife's affection and sexuality when he has already used all of the normal, commonly-known ideas and techniques?
- How does a husband move his wife from reserved, slightly-cold, indifferent, non-affectionate, not-very-expressive, and not-very-adventurous-sexually to warm, affectionate, expressive, and sexually-adventurous?
- How does a husband help his wife ... who has pretty much always been cold, distant, unfriendly, non-affectionate, and non-sexual ... to become a warm, close, friendly, affectionate, and sexual wife?
- How does a husband get his wife to open back up to him in love, affection, and intimacy after she has closed herself off to him and shut down her feelings for him ... and she will not let herself forgive or forget the bad that he has done in the past ... and she will not accept or work with his present efforts to be a good husband ... and she will not allow herself to have feelings for him so that they can finally move forward into a pleasant marriage?
Well, if you have a wife like I have described in these questions, you already know there is no easy answer or solution to these questions because you have already tried everything you know of. But now, I have brand-new material for you ... ideas, strategies, tactics, techniques ... answers and solutions ... that I am confident is beyond anything you have ever seen or heard before.
Here is what I can absolutely promise you: by the second page of this segment, you will know that this is NOT the same old rehashed, regurgitated information that is commonly available elsewhere and that doesn't really fix anything.
In creating this segment, I have spent extensive, earnest time in prayer asking God for answers and solutions that will make a real difference in a marriage where the wife is persistently cold, shut-down, withdrawn, aloof, distant, non-affectionate, non-intimate, and non-sexual.
I have spent hundreds of hours brainstorming for answers and solutions ... after having talked for hundreds of hours with men whose wife was determined to not respond positively to their efforts to create a more affectionate, more sexual marriage relationship.
And, I have spent hundreds of hours studying the human mind, what makes it tick the way it does, and how to get it ticking in a different way ... just so I could help men know how to open up their wife to more affection and intimacy.
This eBook is the result and it is for the husband whose wife really is a "hard case to crack open" ... and for the husband who wants to enjoy the highest-quality relationship with his wife that he possibly can.
Inside this segment, I answer questions such as:
- What is it that a husband must do to and for his wife if he wants her to be passionately interested in sex?
- What is it that the wife-seducer gives his wife in sex ... that the typical husband is totally oblivious to ... that causes her to want sex more and more?
- The wife of a wife-seducer will pretty much always give an enthusiastic, passionate "Yes" to sex at any time. In contrast, the wife of the typical husband will pretty much always resist, defer, procrastinate on, block, or decline her husband's sexual advances. So, what is the wife-seducer giving his wife that causes her to say "Yes" that the typical husband is not giving his wife and he thereby causes her to mostly say "No"? When the wife of a wife-seducer says "Yes" to sex, what is it that she is really saying "Yes" too ... that the typical husband hasn't given his wife the opportunity to say "Yes" to? When you know the answer to these questions, your marriage relationship cannot help but start going in a better direction.
- The higher a woman's self-esteem, the more affectionate and sexual she will be. The lower her self-esteem, the less affectionate and less sexual she will be. So, the obvious question is, how does a husband boost his wife's self-esteem to the point she is a more affectionate, more sexual person?
- The typical husband responds to his wife's resistance to sex in such a way that he creates an even greater resistance to sex in his wife. But, there IS a way to respond to your wife's resistance that actually creates and stimulates desire within her towards you. The "way" is revealed inside this segment.
- What is a husband supposed to do with a wife who suppresses certain feelings such as (but not limited to) sexual desire? Why does a wife suppress these feelings? What is going on inside of her mind? And, what is the solution to stopping the suppression?
- How do you manage and lead a wife who doesn't respond to logic? How do you manage and lead a wife who is driven by her emotions? How do you transform a wife with negative emotions (and the corresponding unhappy, unpleasant, non-intimate marriage relationship) into a wife with positive emotions (and the corresponding happy, pleasant, intimate marriage relationship)? Let's say your wife comes "blasting" at you in full-bore anger or some other negative emotion. How do you defuse her negative energy ... and more importantly, how do you immediately flip her around into her feeling respect, appreciation, and desire for you? Well, you can respond the way the typical husband responds that usually results in him being in the "dog-house" for a few days or weeks. Or, you can skip the "dog-house" experience and use an incredibly powerful technique contained within this eBook to create a closer, warmer relationship with your wife. (In using this technique on my wife, I have more than once created an IMMEDIATE sexual response in her towards me that she "had to satisfy" right then and there.)
- Why is it that the typical wife will initiate sex about once every 2 - 3 months ... or even less often than that? More importantly, what can a husband do to make sure sex happens WAY more frequently?
- If you could find and push your wife's positive, motivational "hot buttons", would you be able to better influence her and persuade her to open up to you? The answer is, "Absolutely!" and I reveal exactly how to do this inside this segment.
- Why do some wives avoid and reject certain sexual experiences ... such as oral sex ... that can be so wonderful and can really add to a relationship? More importantly, how does a husband open his wife up so that she wants to enjoy these other sexual experiences? The answers are inside this segment.
Plus, there are many, many detailed strategies, tactics, and techniques inside this segment ... any one of which could be the very item that creates the major breakthrough in your wife that you have been wanting and seeking. For example, you will discover the break-through power of:
- The "Two-Minute" Tactic -- If you have a wife who is almost always too stressed, too tired, and too worn-out to be warm, friendly, or intimate with you, then start using this tactic on your wife right away and watch the positive change that starts taking place.
- The "White-Out" Strategy -- A wife who is turned off towards her husband will argue that she just feels the way she does and there is nothing she can do about it. She may even tell her husband that she wants to feel attracted to him but that she just can't seem to get there. So, if your wife says she wants to be in love with you but just can't seem to feel that way towards you, then this strategy is custom-built just for you.
- The "Turning A Wife's Mind And Emotions Towards Her Husband" Strategy -- If you could get your wife to say "No!" to negative thoughts about you and to instead say "Yes!" to positive thoughts about you, that would be a very good thing, yes? Well, that is exactly what this strategy will do for you.
- The "Getting Past A Negative Event" Strategy -- How does a husband help his wife get past some negative "event" from the past that she is holding on to and using as a "block" to a happier marriage relationship? He uses this strategy, that is how.
- The "Nymphomaniac" Strategy -- What is it that causes some females to be highly promiscuous? Well, there is a certain thought pattern that is going through their mind and in this strategy I describe how to get this same thought pattern going through your wife's mind.
Now, I have NOT listed everything that's inside this segment. There is so much more that I have not mentioned. For example, there are a number of "speeches" and "stories" included that a husband can use as needed in the process of opening his wife up to be a warmer, more loving, more affectionate, more intimate, more sexual woman.
Bottom line, "How To Open Up A Wife Who Resists Being Affectionate Or Sexual" is for the husband whose wife really is a hard case to crack open ... whose wife really does need fixing. But having said that, this segment will also help ANY husband ... even one who already has a good marriage relationship with his wife ... become an even more powerful man who is able to turn his wife on towards him even more.
|I think of all the books, Segment #8 is directly addressing my wife's/our relationship's specific problems. My wife was definitely raised in a home where "sex is bad". Her mother was also the dominant force in her home, seriously overpowering all the other personalities, including her father, and that carries over into our relationship. My wife definitely has esteem issues, and I think they are one of the foremost problems that I need to overcome. This is really exactly what I need to address some of the thorniest points in my relationship.|
|-- Forum Member|
|WS8 is exactly what I need! My wife had very low self esteem when we were first married, and it has risen dramatically in that last few years. However, her sexual self esteem can still improve. I am not complaining at all. I just recognize areas that I, as a man, need to encourage and blossom her.|
|-- Forum Member|
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Now, on my side, this guarantee is real and I absolutely stand behind it. But, let’s make sure we are both staying grounded in reality…
If your marriage has been deteriorating for years … and you are just now coming to me … because your wife has started sleeping in a different room … or she is talking about separating … or divorcing … or she has ran off with another man … or you are already separated … then I obviously cannot guarantee you the kind marriage you want with your wife if she is already departing or estranged.
Now, if you are in this situation, I CAN tell you that IF ANYTHING will bring your wife back into an affectionate, sexual relationship with you, IT IS THIS SYSTEM of information, help, guidance, support, and mentoring.
And, I can tell you that most of the men who have came to me with a crumbling marriage WERE able to recreate an affectionate, intimate relationship with their departing or estranged wife by applying my teachings.
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Stated differently, I cannot guarantee WHO the woman will be … but I can guarantee you that I can and will help you create an affectionate, sexual relationship with A woman.
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How Much Time Do You Have Before “It” Happens?
Take a moment to consider the element of time … how much time do you have before something bad happens in your marriage?
What I can tell you is that many men THINK their marriage is in great shape … or that it is in better shape than it really is … and they do not realize how bad things really are in their marriage.
Here is what happens: a woman will generally ACT as if everything is okay all the way up to the point where she crosses over her “threshold” … at which point she does a complete 180 turn-away from her husband and a total rejection of him.
Of course, there are “signs” of underlying problems and imminent danger before a woman blows up on her husband: depression … severe mood swings … aloofness … a decline in sex … or a loss of passion in sex … and many others.
But, because a woman will often continue giving sex to her husband in spite of the issues and problems she has with him inside of herself … because a husband is still getting what he wants from his wife … he ignores … or does not see … the “signs” … and he continues on as if everything is perfectly okay.
And then one day … out of nowhere … some LITTLE something or another will happen … and his wife shocks him with the news that she wants a separation or a divorce … and now, the husband has the huge, difficult, up-hill, failure-is-highly-possible battle of trying to win his wife back when she does not want to be with him nor does she want anything to do with him.
Here is the next thing I must tell you; when there is a lack of emotional AND physical intimacy between you and your wife and when your relationship is steadily eroding away, then you better do something quick to fix and repair your marriage.
Either that, or you better get ready because the disaster of a divorce or an affair is imminent.
Now, you might think that “your” wife would never do that to you … and yet … roughly speaking … statistics prove that out of every two men, one of them is going to experience a divorce.
However, that does not mean the other guy got off without incident. While the exact percentage cannot really be determined, many of the men who do not go through a divorce will experience the bitterness of their wife cheating on them.
Imagine your best friend standing beside you … ONE of you IS going to be the “one” who ends up dealing with a divorce or the betrayal of a wife who has cheated on you.
The question is, will it be YOU or will it be HIM?
Well, if you care about protecting your interests, then YOUR only “protection” is two-fold:
- Make sure you know what your wife’s needs are and meet those needs on purpose better than any other man who crosses her path in life.
- Think, behave, and operate in a way that is more appealing, attractive, desirable, and sexy to your woman than any other man she knows or meets.
Only when these two criteria are satisfied is your marriage relationship … your home … your family … your children … your future … “safe”.
So again, I ask … is there any urgency to you being able to satisfy these two criteria?
Well, I can tell you that you BETTER be the best “choice” your wife has because if you are not, there IS a ticking “affair-bomb” or “divorce-bomb” with YOUR NAME on it!
When your wife looks around at other men and compares them to YOU … and she DOES DO THIS … you BETTER be such a man that she realizes YOU really are her best “deal”.
And, to make sure you understand this, your wife is NOT rating you based on how successful you are in your career … or how much money you make … or what kind of house and car you have provided her with … or what kind of father you are.
Whether you believe it or not, whether you realize it or not, your wife is assessing, rating, and judging you based upon how good you are at turning her on and invoking a connected, intimate, and sexual response in her towards you.
And, if you are not consistently invoking a connected, intimate, and sexual response in your wife, then your marriage relationship is in very real danger … particularly the closer your wife is to menopause.
To go a step farther with this, it is common for me to get a call from a guy who thought his marriage was safe … because he was so successful both socially and financially … but now, he is freaking out because his wife just ran off with some pot-bellied, slob of a guy who still lives with his mom and who has not held down a job in years … and he cannot understand how his wife could trade him for such a loser.
Well, these men just found out the hard way that their wife does not use the criteria to rate and assess them that they thought she did. More accurately, these men found out that a wife generally does not base her opinion of her husband on the criteria that he thinks she uses or that he wants her to use.
So, is this urgent? Yes, it is pretty urgent!
Point blank, do not cheat yourself. Do not put your marriage in any greater marriage risk than it is already in. Instead, say “Yes!” to this offer of help. Get the happy, pleasant, satisfying, enjoyable, loving, affectionate, and highly-sexual marriage relationship that you really do want.
Are You Hesitating Because Of The Cost?
It is quite odd how many men can spend and waste huge amounts of money on all kinds of frivolous, meaningless things and never think a second thought about it. And yet, when it comes to something important, life-improving, and future-altering, these very same men can become the world’s greatest procrastinators and get hung up over TINY amounts of money.
So, if you are hanging up on the cost of these marriage-improving products, then expand your time-frame beyond the constricted time-frame of just right now … step back and consider the longer-term … do this and realize that this is an INsignificant amount of money compared to the GREATER enjoyment, satisfaction, and pleasure that comes from having a happy, sexual marriage … one that you can enjoy for the rest of your life.
But, You Should Pass On This If…
There are some who should just pass on this offer of marriage help. Check and see if you are one of them:
#1: If an occasional Bible reference is something that you do not agree with or appreciate, then this is not for you.
While the subject matter I write about is all about creating an affectionate, intimate, and sexual marriage, I do come from a Christian frame of reference.
On the flip side, my teachings are NOT the watered down, keep letting your wife misbehave and abuse you … while you just love her … kind of fare that you find in standard Christian marriage relationship books. My materials are about creating REAL results in your marriage as quickly as possible.
Bottom line, if you hate God, hate the Bible, and hate the Christian belief system, then you are not going to like this program … and you should search elsewhere for someone whose belief-system is more like yours.
#2: If you are the type of guy who thinks he already knows everything and nobody can teach him anything, then do not waste your time getting this. There is no benefit in you going through this program trying to convince yourself the whole way through that you already know everything there is to know about male/female relationships.
Similarly, if you are the type who is big on how much you know … and not much on applying what you know … then you should just save yourself the hassle and skip this.
If you are not open to learning … if you are not ready to receive … and to implement … then there is no sense in wasting your time or mine. I am serious about helping men create the kind of marriage they want … and if I am going to help you, then you must be open, receptive, and serious about increasing your skills and abilities too.
You can be sure that creating the kind of marriage you want is NOT a mere academic exercise where all you have to do is answer a few questions on a test about something you have heard about before. If that is what you want, then this is not for you.
#3: If you want everything to be your wife’s fault and nothing to be your fault, then you will not be happy with this.
The fact is, there are issues on both your part AND your wife’s part … and we have to start with your part first … then we can deal with your wife’s part second.
But, if you are not ready to accept responsibility for your side of the equation … and to start making improvements on your side first … then you should pass on this.
Similarly, if you want to hold on to excuses for not stepping up and becoming a man who can create the kind of marriage he wants, then skip this because it will mess up your game-playing.
If you are not ready to develop yourself into a man who can create the kind of marriage he wants … if you are not ready to step up to the responsibilities and rewards of being a high-caliber, attractive, desirable man … if you want to hold on to the excuse that you do not know how to get good results with your wife … or any other such kinds of excuses, then you should pass on this because you will have no excuses by the time you finish this marriage program.
#4: These eBooks are NOT the work of a graphical artist where you get a fancy cover page and more pictures than there is content … and if that is what you are looking for, then this is not for you. But, if you want to get working answers to your questions about your wife, if you want to get real solutions to your relationship problems with your wife, if you want to change the entire course of your personal life with your wife, then you definitely want to get this now.