In this article, we are going to talk about how a husband can get to the place where he is enjoying a more sexual marriage relationship with his wife. But first, we need to lay a foundation.
Have you ever recognized that the path to success is usually quite obvious?
Well, whether you have or have not, you have undoubtedly recognized that the path to success is rarely the easy, effortless, no-discipline-required path that one can just coast down and then fall into massive success.
Consequently, because the obvious path to success appears to be challenging, too many people avoid it and they end up in not-very-successful circumstances and conditions.
However, they still want success…and they still do not want to take the obvious path to success…because it looks like it would require too much from them…so, they look for an alternate path that is faster, easier, and simpler…and all they do is walk their own self into circumstances and conditions that are even less successful.
To illustrate the point being made here, let’s consider the problem of obesity.
EVERYBODY knows that the secret to keeping unwanted, unattractive fat off of your body is two-fold:
1) Eat healthy foods that support and help your body’s “system”.
2) Exercise at a level that consumes all of the food you bring into your body so that there is no excess energy left for your body to store as fat.
In short, eat healthy and burn off everything you eat.
And yet, even though people everywhere know this, they still MAKE THE CHOICE to eat poorly and to not exercise enough. Obviously, the result is that their body begins manifesting unwanted, unappealing fat.
Of course, these people do not like the unappealing fat on their body…but they still are not willing to take the obvious path to success…and so, they look for an alternate path to success.
That is why the diet industry is a multi-billion dollar industry.
Unfortunately for these shortcut-seekers, while false-promisers are raking in billions of dollars from them, they CONTINUE to gain unwanted, unappealing body fat…they CONTINUE to have to buy bigger and bigger sized clothing to fit their ever-increasing body size.
However, there are some people who DECIDE that they are going to enjoy a trim, attractive, healthy body.
As a result, these people LEARN what they need to learn…
They PRACTICE what they need to practice…
They DO what they need to do…
And, they FIND THE JOY, SATISFACTION, and PRIDE in what they are learning, practicing, and doing…
Such that they end up enjoying life FAR MORE than people who do not learn, practice, and do…
AND, they get to enjoy the prestige of an attractive body to boot!
Therein lies the surprising irony: even though it is more challenging, the obvious path to success is always a happier, more enjoyable, more satisfying, more meaningful path compared to all other paths that promise a shortcut. And so, in avoiding the obvious path to success, people block themselves from much happiness, enjoyment, satisfaction, and meaning.
Now, let’s come back to the topic of a husband getting to that place where he can enjoy a more sexual marriage relationship with his wife.
Husband, there IS a way to get your wife to be as loving, affectionate, intimate, and sexual with you as you want her to be!
What is that way?
It is to develop yourself into the most attractive, appealing, desirable, and sexy man that your wife knows.
As you become more attractive, appealing, desirable, and sexy, your wife cannot help but respond to you with more affection, intimacy, and sexual desire. The effect always correlates to the cause!
Well, when you see it laid out plain like that, it is kind of obvious, isn’t it?
Like I said, the path to success usually is quite obvious.
And yet, there are men by the millions who are suffering in a not-very-affectionate, not-very-intimate, not-very-sexual relationship with their wife.
These men do NOT like the situation they are in. In fact, they are quite miserable in their marriage relationship. Yes, they “love” their wife…but they hate the dissatisfying, unfulfilling personal relationship they have with her.
And yet, these men do not choose to proactively take the obvious path to personal relationship success with their wife…so they get to continue suffering in their dissatisfying, unfulfilling marriage relationship.
And sure, for many of these men, their marriage relationship is okay in other aspects…but in the area of true closeness, affection, intimacy, and sex…well, there just isn’t enough there to satisfy.
Now, why don’t these men choose to proactively take the obvious path to a more affectionate, intimate, and sexual relationship with their wife?
Is it laziness?
Is it a refusal to take personal responsibility and accountability…preferring to shift all the blame to their wife?
Is it a false-belief that they are already attractive enough?
Does the obvious path to success appear to be too difficult for them?
Does it appear to be too much work?
Are they afraid that they are not capable of tackling the challenge of becoming an attractive, appealing, desirable, and sexy man?
Is it something else?
Well, whatever it is…by their inaction and lack of personal development, these men STOP AND BLOCK THEIR OWN SELF from having the affectionate, intimate, and sexual relationship with their wife that they want to have.
Sadly, what these men do not realize is that they are WELL ABLE to become the attractive, appealing, desirable man who invokes a more affectionate, intimate, and sexual response in their wife towards them.
Sadly, these men look at the obvious path to relationship success with their wife…and they assess it as requiring too much from them…never realizing that they are missing out on the GREAT joy, satisfaction, and pride that goes along with the learning, practicing, and doing that goes into becoming the most attractive, appealing, desirable, and sexy man their wife knows…and that she has a more affectionate, intimate, and sexual response to.
But, there are some husbands who DECIDE they ARE going to enjoy a wife who is affectionate, intimate, and sexual with them.
Consequently, these husbands LEARN what they need to learn. They PRACTICE what they need to practice. They DO what they need to do. They find the joy, satisfaction, and pride in what they are learning, practicing, and doing…such that they end up enjoying life far more than the typical husband…and they get to enjoy a far more satisfying relationship with their wife to boot!
So, there are two categories of husbands…those who suffer in a not-very-satisfying relationship with their wife…and those who enjoy a highly affectionate, intimate, and sexual relationship with their wife.
The question is, which category are YOU DECIDING to be in?
You CAN be in either one…and which one you are in is entirely up to you.
Yes, the obvious path to a more affectionate, intimate, and sexual relationship with your wife is a rigorous path that requires diligence and discipline…but, it is a path that you are WELL ABLE to conquer…and you will likely be quite surprised at the degree of satisfaction, fulfillment, and meaning you get to enjoy while traveling this path of success…not to mention the enjoyment you get to enjoy over and over and over when you have reached your success destination with your wife.
Here is my advice to you: get on the obvious path to satisfying marriage relationship success right now! Choose right now to become the most attractive, appealing, desirable, and sexy man your wife knows…so that she can have a more affectionate, intimate, and sexual response to you.
Copyright 2018 by Calle Zorro