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Can you help my husband "get it"?
09-16-2009, 01:05 AM (This post was last modified: 09-16-2009 01:08 AM by CalleZorro.)
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Can you help my husband "get it"?
Quote:I am a wife looking for information that would help my husband to be more loving, affectionate, satisfying, seductive and passionate. I want him to know what works for me as a woman –- as well as what doesn't work and why. I want him to know how to please and satisfy me as a wife within clean, Christian bounds.

Hi "Wife",

There are three eBooks that I most suggest for your situation -- based on what you are wanting. They are:

1. "How To Turn Your Wife Into A Nymphomaniac"
2. "A Wife's Letter of Secrets"
3. "How To Be The Best Lover Your Wife's Ever Had".

Now, don't be put-off by the titles of these eBooks because if your husband will study and apply the contents of these three eBooks, you will be a very, Very, VERY happy woman.

If you are wanting to help your husband "get it" so that the two of you can have a happier, more satisfying marriage, these three eBooks contain the information you're looking for.

And, just so you know, these eBooks go way beyond the "trite, canned" suggestions of:

* Be nice to your wife
* Take her to dinner
* Buy her flowers
* Become a better communicator
* Make "love" deposits
* Etc.

You're husband already knows all of that. He needs something more specific and detailed and that's what these three eBooks will give him.

Now, once you've bought these three eBooks you then need to make sure you get the return on your investment that you're looking for. Here's how you do that...

Probably, you were raised up like most women to NOT be direct with a man. That is a "training" that you must absolutely get rid of. You should always be loving, appreciative of the good, and respectful towards your husband AND you should be direct with him.

So, just getting the above three eBooks and "hoping" that he'll get the "hint" and read it is a strategy that RARELY works. A strategy that's much more successful is to find a time when your husband is NOT in the middle of something and then make sure your attitude (and face) is warm, friendly, and pleasant and your voice is "sweet" and directly tell your husband something like...

"Husband, I love you, I appreciate all that you do, and I'm glad that I'm married to you. And, it's important to me that I have a happy, fulfilling, satisfying, and intimate marriage relationship. I also believe that's important to you as well and I WANT US to have that kind of marriage. And, for that to happen, I realize that there are things YOU need to know about me. However, I'm like most women...I'm not very good at articulating what it is that I want in a way that makes sense to a man. I can FEEL when what I want is in my experience but I'm not very good at explaining what it is that I want. And, if I can't tell you what I want very well, then you can't very well give it to me. But, there is this Calle Zorro guy who has "translated" what women want into language that makes sense to a man -- and the result is that men learn how to do the things that cause a woman to want to be way more sexual and women get a husband that really knows how to meet their needs -- it's a win-win. I've bought three of this guys eBooks. I don't know if we'll agree with everything that this Calle guy says but I AM DIRECTLY ASKING YOU TO READ THESE EBOOKS I'VE BOUGHT...I WANT YOU TO READ THEM THIS WEEK and you can read them by yourself or we can read them together...whichever way you're more comfortable with...so that we can BOTH enjoy our marriage to the fullest. This is something I want you to do for US. <double check to make SURE your face and voice are pleasant and sweet and then say> I'm not hinting, I'm not suggesting, I WANT you to do this for us, ok?"

Now, that will probably be the hardest few words you've ever had to say to your husband and they will probably be the most effective you've ever said.

However, once may not be enough. You may have to DRIVE your husband with multiple prompts. Here's how you do that in the "right" way...

"Husband, I WANT US to have the happy, satisfying, fulfilling, intimate marriage that we BOTH want. I am CONFIDENT that the eBooks I bought will help US in a significant way. It IS important to ME that YOU READ these eBooks so that WE can benefit from them. And, I want you to understand...I'm NOT nagging, whining, or complaining! Rather, I AM following up on my request that you read these eBooks right away. How SOON will you be able to begin reading them?"

Whatever your husband's answer is, you then respond with, "Excellent! I'm looking forward to our marriage becoming even better and better. Should I follow up with you at that point?"

In greater than 90% of all marriages, this is all a woman needs to do to "help" her husband become the kind of husband she wants.

And, she can get the three eBooks I mentioned above here: http://www.MarriedAndHappy.com/Catalog

Calle Zorro
http://www.MarriedAndHappy.com
(918) 814-3480
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