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I don't feel close to my husband
03-24-2009, 06:01 PM (This post was last modified: 03-24-2009 06:08 PM by CalleZorro.)
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I don't feel close to my husband
I received the following note from a lady named "B" today:

"I don't feel close to my husband and therefor I will rarely have sex with him. When I feel connected to him I want sex. It is a pitiful situation and there isn't any joy."

First of all, my heart goes out to Mrs "B" and all the women who are in a situation like hers.

It's women like Mrs. "B" who are going through needless frustration that really motivates me to do everything I can to help men be the kind of man that their wife wants them to be.

It really is a crying shame because just as Mrs. "B" says, when a woman feels connected to her man, she wants sex. Unfortunately, while he's wanting sex and she's wanting it too, HE doesn't get how to make the proper connections so that beautiful intimacy and lovemaking can happen.

For anyone in a situation like Mrs. "B", I suggest that they read these articles:

http://www.marriedandhappy.com/Forum/sho....php?tid=1

http://www.marriedandhappy.com/Blog/2009...block.html

And then, I suggest you buy the "Nymphomaniac Wife" eBook for yourself (http://www.NymphomaniacWife.com). This will do two things for you:

1. It will make it very clear to you how you want your husband to meet your needs. That's because this eBook is all about understanding and meeting a woman's needs.

2. You'll see by example how to communicate your needs to your husband in a way that makes sense to him.

Then, after you read the eBook, you get very direct with him on what you want him to do to and for you.

I understand it's not normally a woman's nature to get super direct like this but when you've got a hard-headed, set-in-his-ways kind of husband who doesn't get it, there's really no other way than to get super direct with him and let him know what you want and that if he doesn't make some changes, then he's going to be on his own.

Be sure and let him know that's not what you want but that at the same time, you have needs that WILL be met and if he doesn't want to be the man who meets them, then it's only right that you let him go on down his own road while you take a different road with a different man who IS motivated to meet your needs.

Calle Zorro
http://www.MarriedAndHappy.com
(918) 814-3480
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