03-21-2010, 04:51 PM
Lady, you ARE a sexual being!
There are multiple cases where scientists/doctors claim they have observed unborn females...still in the womb...only 5-6 months old masturbating and apparently having an orgasm. For example, here's an article you can reference: "Ultrasonographic observation of a female fetus' sexual behavior in utero." American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology 1996 Sept"
I don't know if this is true or not...and I have no interest in trying to prove or disprove it...but I think we'd all agree there's nothing more innocent and pure than an infant...and if you've ever had dealt with infants, their IS a sexual element to them that from time to time crops up...and if sexual pleasure was "bad", wouldn't it stand to reason that infants wouldn't "do that"?
However, it may well be the case that you have shut that part of yourself down. You may be blocking it and denying it. You may be rejecting that part of yourself and trying to pretend that part of you doesn't really exist or need attention. You may have even worked at it for long enough that you have come to really believe that you are not a sexual person.
But, any time you subvert any part of yourself, the result is SICKNESS and DISEASE. It's starts out as emotional DIS--EASE....and ends up being physical DISEASE.
Now, I don't want you to just think about this from the perspective of your own health and wellbeing. I want you to think about it from a bigger and broader perspective...
What is the message you have given your sons and daughters about sexuality?
When your little kids touched themselves...or when your children asked about sexual things, what did you say?
How did you respond?
Well, there are too many women who respond in such a way that they CURSE their children's lives and make the world a WORSE place...they respond in such a way that MUCH unhappiness, hurt, pain, bitterness, and resentment is created in the ever-growing and expanding family tree.
Just go up a mere 4 generations to a pair of great-grandparents and follow those two tree's down to the present time and notice how many people stemmed from just these 4 people.
In most cases, it's a surprisingly big number.
And just think, if both of these great-grandma's believed that sex was bad and should be avoided...and conveyed this message to their daughters...think of how many UNHAPPY and MISERABLE lives have been affected and impacted by these two women's "belief".
If this belief existed within your own family tree, look around at your generation of relatives and notice how many unhappy lives are being lived out because of this belief that sex is bad and should be avoided?
If this belief existed within your own family tree, how many divorces have come about because of a woman wouldn't be sexual with her husband? (And who knows how many more are likely to come?)
If there are women in your family who deny their sexuality, how many illicit affairs have come about because of their denial?
Conversely, when you look at those family trees that are filled with happy homes and happy marriages, you'll UNFAILINGLY find that at the "top" was a sexual woman...a woman who was unashamed of her sexuality...and who transmitted that belief-system to her children.
Of course, I understand that there is far more to a happy marriage than a woman being sexual but I'm conveying this point because it's the part that's most often missing in a marriage.
So, I implore you; don't be a woman who is CURSING your children and making the world a WORSE place to be in by teaching and modeling to them negative and shameful beliefs about their sexuality.
And, if your trouble is that your husband thinks, behaves, and operates in a way that turns you off sexually, then send him to http://www.DoThisGetSex.com so that he can learn how to become the kind of man that you find attractive and appealing.
There are multiple cases where scientists/doctors claim they have observed unborn females...still in the womb...only 5-6 months old masturbating and apparently having an orgasm. For example, here's an article you can reference: "Ultrasonographic observation of a female fetus' sexual behavior in utero." American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology 1996 Sept"
I don't know if this is true or not...and I have no interest in trying to prove or disprove it...but I think we'd all agree there's nothing more innocent and pure than an infant...and if you've ever had dealt with infants, their IS a sexual element to them that from time to time crops up...and if sexual pleasure was "bad", wouldn't it stand to reason that infants wouldn't "do that"?
However, it may well be the case that you have shut that part of yourself down. You may be blocking it and denying it. You may be rejecting that part of yourself and trying to pretend that part of you doesn't really exist or need attention. You may have even worked at it for long enough that you have come to really believe that you are not a sexual person.
But, any time you subvert any part of yourself, the result is SICKNESS and DISEASE. It's starts out as emotional DIS--EASE....and ends up being physical DISEASE.
Now, I don't want you to just think about this from the perspective of your own health and wellbeing. I want you to think about it from a bigger and broader perspective...
What is the message you have given your sons and daughters about sexuality?
When your little kids touched themselves...or when your children asked about sexual things, what did you say?
How did you respond?
Well, there are too many women who respond in such a way that they CURSE their children's lives and make the world a WORSE place...they respond in such a way that MUCH unhappiness, hurt, pain, bitterness, and resentment is created in the ever-growing and expanding family tree.
Just go up a mere 4 generations to a pair of great-grandparents and follow those two tree's down to the present time and notice how many people stemmed from just these 4 people.
In most cases, it's a surprisingly big number.
And just think, if both of these great-grandma's believed that sex was bad and should be avoided...and conveyed this message to their daughters...think of how many UNHAPPY and MISERABLE lives have been affected and impacted by these two women's "belief".
If this belief existed within your own family tree, look around at your generation of relatives and notice how many unhappy lives are being lived out because of this belief that sex is bad and should be avoided?
If this belief existed within your own family tree, how many divorces have come about because of a woman wouldn't be sexual with her husband? (And who knows how many more are likely to come?)
If there are women in your family who deny their sexuality, how many illicit affairs have come about because of their denial?
Conversely, when you look at those family trees that are filled with happy homes and happy marriages, you'll UNFAILINGLY find that at the "top" was a sexual woman...a woman who was unashamed of her sexuality...and who transmitted that belief-system to her children.
Of course, I understand that there is far more to a happy marriage than a woman being sexual but I'm conveying this point because it's the part that's most often missing in a marriage.
So, I implore you; don't be a woman who is CURSING your children and making the world a WORSE place to be in by teaching and modeling to them negative and shameful beliefs about their sexuality.
And, if your trouble is that your husband thinks, behaves, and operates in a way that turns you off sexually, then send him to http://www.DoThisGetSex.com so that he can learn how to become the kind of man that you find attractive and appealing.