08-25-2009, 07:57 AM
All of us on this forum have a couple things in common. We love our wives or we wouldnt' be here trying to make our relationships better, and we want more fulfilling bedroom experiences.
Well let me just say that the angle Calle has taken in the "How To Create a More Sexual Marriage" ebook is starting to actually work!
I've only been at it about 1-2 weeks now but I'm realizing that I really do love spending time with my wife. I always had a score card like how many days without i've gone and then trying to smooth my way (or manipulate) into her panties. WEll though it worked ever 3-5 days there were times i'd have to accept sympathy sex because my wife appreciated my effort but didnt' respect my "game".
Now i'm not playing a game, i'm just looking at her different, in a respectful loving way. I see now that i should get sex from her loving and respecting me not as payment.
So last night I told her directly my expections after a couple weeks of true honest effort and I stated this almost exactly """Sweetie, in order for me to feel emotionally fulfilled and comfortable I need sex at least 3,4 times a week. I don't expect you to sleep with me because I'm horny but because you love me and respect me and want to fulfill my needs".
her answer was startling, anytime previously i brought up conversations to improve my frequency were combatted with words like ok ok, can we quit talking about it now? etc. etc......
Only this time she looked at me and said "thank you I appreciate that.........and then followed it up with i'm going to have sex with you everyday this week, well except wednesday because i'm going out to dinner with abc123xxxx"
I don't want to jump the gun because it hasn't happened yet but this was a great sign, she has never said anything like that to me in years if ever. Also I have been telling her how sexy and beautiful a woman is during her period in that its natural and beautiful and elaborated a little more and this was usually her "me time" her silver bullet excuse for me having to leave her alone where as now i'm hoping she won't need that because I won't be bugging her
Thank you Calle for all your hard work, if there are any other books on meeting a woman's emotional needs let me know what they are. I am applying your teachings and its working. This is great knowledge, men are never taught these skills, we're taught how to manipulate, dominate, and fool ourselves into thinking we're smarter then we are so we can manipulate for what we want. But really, none of that works – but what you teach in your ebook does.
Stay tuned, i'll send a follow up if this week is what she suggested. it may take a few more weeks or months to really get there but it sure would be amazing if it worked this quickly.
Well let me just say that the angle Calle has taken in the "How To Create a More Sexual Marriage" ebook is starting to actually work!
I've only been at it about 1-2 weeks now but I'm realizing that I really do love spending time with my wife. I always had a score card like how many days without i've gone and then trying to smooth my way (or manipulate) into her panties. WEll though it worked ever 3-5 days there were times i'd have to accept sympathy sex because my wife appreciated my effort but didnt' respect my "game".
Now i'm not playing a game, i'm just looking at her different, in a respectful loving way. I see now that i should get sex from her loving and respecting me not as payment.
So last night I told her directly my expections after a couple weeks of true honest effort and I stated this almost exactly """Sweetie, in order for me to feel emotionally fulfilled and comfortable I need sex at least 3,4 times a week. I don't expect you to sleep with me because I'm horny but because you love me and respect me and want to fulfill my needs".
her answer was startling, anytime previously i brought up conversations to improve my frequency were combatted with words like ok ok, can we quit talking about it now? etc. etc......
Only this time she looked at me and said "thank you I appreciate that.........and then followed it up with i'm going to have sex with you everyday this week, well except wednesday because i'm going out to dinner with abc123xxxx"
I don't want to jump the gun because it hasn't happened yet but this was a great sign, she has never said anything like that to me in years if ever. Also I have been telling her how sexy and beautiful a woman is during her period in that its natural and beautiful and elaborated a little more and this was usually her "me time" her silver bullet excuse for me having to leave her alone where as now i'm hoping she won't need that because I won't be bugging her
Thank you Calle for all your hard work, if there are any other books on meeting a woman's emotional needs let me know what they are. I am applying your teachings and its working. This is great knowledge, men are never taught these skills, we're taught how to manipulate, dominate, and fool ourselves into thinking we're smarter then we are so we can manipulate for what we want. But really, none of that works – but what you teach in your ebook does.
Stay tuned, i'll send a follow up if this week is what she suggested. it may take a few more weeks or months to really get there but it sure would be amazing if it worked this quickly.