08-19-2009, 08:47 AM
So, maby this is not the place, if so Calle I apoligize, however, I figure many guys here have been where I am before and maby I can get a little advise.
Our anniversary (6th) is coming up on Sunday. We will be on our family vacation to the beach that week. I would like to make at least one romantic night after the kids have gone to sleep. I have some candles, I figure that I will make us a nice dinner, and champagne after. I am going to buy one of those digital photo frames and put photos of us and some of us with the kids on there, in addition I am making her a CD of romantic songs so we can listen to it while we have dinner, or just drinks, whatever happens.
This is all good I would say, but I want to make shure to keep my masculinity alive all the time and not seem like I'm kissing up to her or acting needy, but I do want the night to end up with some good love making as well as sex throughout the week.
I have not been pushing the sex issue over the past few weeks, and we have had sex several times, good, although nothing special. I know that we are still in the repair stages of out marriage and I am really concentrating on meeting her needs and having good conversations with her, seems as if conversation in so boring sometimes its like we have nothing to talk about anymore so I'm kinda dreading a whole week of just us - thats horrible I know.But still I want her to let me rock her world so she will remember that we are passionate and physical people, but it takes two to make this happen and it seems like she just wasnts this one positoin that real y benifits her orgasams, she rarely lets me give her good foreplay (i.e. oral pleasure) but I know she likes it!
What is the best way to LEAD her to a passionate lovemaking session in a manly non needy way? Does anyone know what I mean?
Also, If anyone has any anniversary ideas that have work[/font]ed for you in the past PLEASE let me know!
Thanks guys.
and better yet, I know some of you have these tales - WHAT TO AVOID DOING THAT WILL RUIN EVERYTHING!
Our anniversary (6th) is coming up on Sunday. We will be on our family vacation to the beach that week. I would like to make at least one romantic night after the kids have gone to sleep. I have some candles, I figure that I will make us a nice dinner, and champagne after. I am going to buy one of those digital photo frames and put photos of us and some of us with the kids on there, in addition I am making her a CD of romantic songs so we can listen to it while we have dinner, or just drinks, whatever happens.
This is all good I would say, but I want to make shure to keep my masculinity alive all the time and not seem like I'm kissing up to her or acting needy, but I do want the night to end up with some good love making as well as sex throughout the week.
I have not been pushing the sex issue over the past few weeks, and we have had sex several times, good, although nothing special. I know that we are still in the repair stages of out marriage and I am really concentrating on meeting her needs and having good conversations with her, seems as if conversation in so boring sometimes its like we have nothing to talk about anymore so I'm kinda dreading a whole week of just us - thats horrible I know.But still I want her to let me rock her world so she will remember that we are passionate and physical people, but it takes two to make this happen and it seems like she just wasnts this one positoin that real y benifits her orgasams, she rarely lets me give her good foreplay (i.e. oral pleasure) but I know she likes it!
What is the best way to LEAD her to a passionate lovemaking session in a manly non needy way? Does anyone know what I mean?
Also, If anyone has any anniversary ideas that have work[/font]ed for you in the past PLEASE let me know!
Thanks guys.
and better yet, I know some of you have these tales - WHAT TO AVOID DOING THAT WILL RUIN EVERYTHING!