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It's not at all uncommon for a woman to begin having questions about "life" somewhere around 35 to 40 -- usually between her 15th and 20th year of marriage.

That's why people who made it past the first year or two of marriage end up divorcing after all this time.

During this time, a woman will begin to struggle with the multi-faceted questions of what is her meaning in life, what is her purpose in life, what is her value in life, what is her ENJOYMENT in life???

She'll begin to question what it is that she's GETTING in life compared to all that she's giving.

She'll begin to question what all she's missed out on because of the choices she's made.

When this time comes, it's especially important that a man continue doing the things I talk about in the "Nymphomaniac Wife" eBook AND that he maintains his masculinity like I talk about in the "Sexual Marriage" and "Wife Seducer" eBooks so that as his wife is asking herself these questions, she can DISCOVER that her man was a good choice – and in fact, he was the best choice she could have possibly made.

And, a man should definitely be compassionate and flexible and giving during this time because his wife will do the same for him at a different stage in life.

(08-17-2009 01:28 PM)CalleZorro Wrote: [ -> ]It's not at all uncommon for a woman to begin having questions about "life" somewhere around 35 to 40 -- usually between her 15th and 20th year of marriage.

That's why people who made it past the first year or two of marriage end up divorcing after all this time.

During this time, a woman will begin to struggle with the multi-faceted questions of what is her meaning in life, what is her purpose in life, what is her value in life, what is her ENJOYMENT in life???

She'll begin to question what it is that she's GETTING in life compared to all that she's giving.

A testimony:
Just the time frame my marriage is in, and when things took a nose-dive for the worse. My wife was beginning to verbally insult me, and had lost all respect for me. I came to a day when I realized that she likely did not love me anymore, due to the severe out-lashing she projected towards me. Our 2 children always suffered because of our sour moods. My marriage technique was to lay back quietly and let time wash her bad mood away. I was seriously staring separation in the eye that day. When things settled down, and I confronted her on whether she still loved me, she said "yes", but I knew that I had to change something, because affirmation that alone would not make things better.

I have been in Calle's program for only one week. I have not shed tears with my family before, but I must say that yesterday I shed them openly with my wife over the positive changes that have taken place in our family. Our son and daughter have sensed our love, and have embraced each other, and opened up in a way I had never imagined. They are now responsive, confident, and loving. Tears well up as I type. My wife is excited, and vibrant. Yesterday in a casual social setting, she had the attention of ALL the women in the room. I truly feel they were attracted to the glow she projected from the love I have been showering on her.

Thank-you sooo much for helping me understand and continue to move towards HOW TO BE A MAN for my wife. I knew women were different from men, but have never understood how, and what they needed. Finally I have the RULEBOOK for a successful marriage!

Yesman, thank you for sharing your story. Keep studying and applying...and things will get even better than they are now. And, sometimes, your woman will do a test to see if you're being genuine...if she does, just keep doing what you're learning and she'll come back around even strong and better.

Gee I did not get such quick results in a week!!

Some of us have to be a lot more patient.